“We are the Pilgrims, master; we shall go
Always a little further; it may be
Beyond that last blue mountain barred with snow
Across that angry or that glimmering sea,
White on a throne or guarded in a cave
There lies a prophet who can understand
Why men were born: but surely we are brave,
Who take the Golden Road to Samarkand.”
James Elroy Flecker
What are we aiming for?
The experiences we’ll share, you and I, form a process of self actualization. This process isn’t about achieving goals or overcoming obstacles, though that’s often a part of it. The actualization I speak of entails embracing who you are on one hand, and becoming who you need to be on the other.
I will help you rid yourself of shame. There’s always a gap between who we are and who we were supposed to be: shame is what we feel when we cannot resolve it. It compels us to falsify our interactions with the world. Hidden from others and from ourselves, like a feral child, we remain only partially formed. To continue forming, you would need an opportunity to express yourself freely and honestly, without fear of judgment. You would need to be seen, understood and accepted, consistently and over time, by someone who’s capable of truly seeing and understanding you. You would need a safe space. I will provide it.
Once shame begins to lift, even just a little, the cascading effects are stunning. You will experience a newness, a sense of possibility. Everyday occurrences will acquire a deeper, interconnected meaning. You will feel empowered; this is when achieving goals and overcoming obstacles comes most naturally. It may resemble falling in love, but it’s just you, coming into yourself. It’s a beautiful and exhilarating stage. I will be there to steady you through it and I will be there to guide you when it plateaus, because that’s when our work will enter it’s most valuable phase.
Once you begin facing the world as who you are — you, not a crowd-pleasing proxy — you can start negotiating that debt towards who you were supposed to be. When you no longer misrepresent your own wants and needs, you will be empathic towards those of others. That sense of belonging, the one that before you achieved by faking, you can now rightfully earn. You will earn it by truly seeing the people around you, through your own eyes and being, just as I have once seen you.
I will be your means to change yourself. You will be my means to change the world. Our work will continue to grow.
Testimonials
For many years I have struggled with understanding my attraction to BDSM. Master Joshua has helped me embrace that part of my sexuality and to be unashamed of who I am. He is someone I fully and genuinely trust. Though our conversations both before and after sessions I have seen how much he cares for me and desires my good. Submitting to him and to the experience he provides has been both cathartic and life changing for me. Through our work together I have been more deeply drawn into my true self and am more in touch with my body, heart and soul. I am grateful for Master Joshua’s presence in my life.
I began my research into my return into the lifestyle and luckily Master Joshua was the first name that popped up. From a connection I thought would last a few times has now lasted with me being a client, well over a year. Joshua leads with a harsh hand under his tutelage, as long as it’s within your limits, either way his goal is to show you your strength while also validating and empowering you. The entire process is healing and has personally changed my life. One thing I can share is if you decide to invest into your journey with Joshua, you won’t regret it. He’s an incredibly special soul who truly has an initiative to change the world. I can attest those who are lucky to call him — Master or Daddy cannot speak higher of him, those who are friends look at him with such admiration and so those who are clients end up feeling like they are on top of the world whenever in his presence and his commitment to get to know you carries outside of just in session. Soon everyday will feel like that, trust. Thanks for everything you do, Master Joshua!
Being over sixty, far from fit and a virtual novice, I was apprehensive about responding to this website. Master Joshua astonished me with his caring approach – he truly seeks to know you as a whole person and understand your needs. He’s made me realize it is not too late to explore an aspect of my identity that has lain dormant for too long. I’m still a work in progress, but I trust Master Joshua to guide me on this journey of self-discovery and take me further than I would have thought possible.